Last week’s Mental Health Awareness Week had the theme ‘Take Action’, encouraging people to make positive steps towards better mental health.
Dealing with probate can be a difficult and emotional experience, particularly while grieving the loss of a loved one. Discussions surrounding finances, property, and family expectations often happen during an already stressful time. Recent figures from the Ministry of Justice showed a 17% rise in intestate estates in 2025.
When someone passes away without leaving a will, it can create uncertainty and disagreements over how an estate should be shared. Feeling emotionally drained or overwhelmed during this process is entirely understandable, and seeking support early can help ease some of the pressure.
How probate can affect mental wellbeing
Below are some of the most common challenges people may face during probate.
- Managing grief after losing a loved one
Bereavement affects everyone in different ways, and there is no ‘right’ way to grieve. Handling legal and financial matters while processing a loss can feel exhausting. Giving yourself time to adjust, leaning on trusted relatives or friends, and allowing space for emotions can all help during this period.
- Family tensions and disagreements
As intestate estates become increasingly common, disputes between family members can arise more frequently. Conflicts may develop over inheritance arrangements or assets that individuals believed had been promised to them. Where no will exists, understanding the rules of intestacy can help ensure conversations remain informed and guided by the legal process.
- Financial uncertainty
For some beneficiaries, inheritance may play an important role in future financial planning. Rising living costs and increasing property prices can add further pressure, particularly when delays in probate prevent timely access to funds. These uncertainties can understandably cause stress and anxiety for those involved.
Every estate is unique, and each family situation comes with its own complexities. At Blanchards, our dedicated client care manager is available to support clients throughout the probate process by answering questions, providing reassurance, and keeping them informed at every stage.
Taking small steps to protect your wellbeing
Mental Health Awareness Week has drawn to a close, but taking action for your mental health is an ongoing process – and it doesn’t need to involve major changes. Simple steps, such as checking in with others, taking time to rest or seeking support when needed.
What if I don’t feel comfortable speaking to family?
Not everyone feels able to open up to relatives or close friends, and that’s completely understandable. Speaking to an independent organisation can sometimes feel easier. The following services offer confidential support and guidance:
- Cruse Bereavement Support
- Samaritans
- Shout
Summary
Probate can bring emotional, financial, and personal pressures during an already difficult time of loss. It’s completely natural to feel overwhelmed. Probate researchers can also be affected by the emotional nature of their work. Staying connected with family, friends, and colleagues can make a real difference, and there are many online resources available to provide guidance, reassurance, and support.
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